Ashtangyuga chanting, in what ways should parents cultivate their study habits when they are young?
In early childhood, in what ways should parents cultivate their study habits?
"Successful education for children begins with the cultivation of good habits. " (Ba Jin)
Good study habits involve many aspects, and children of different ages have different contents.
For children from preschool to lower grades, it is more important to cultivate habits than to acquire knowledge. Parents can start with the following points.
- 1. Cultivate curiosity and stimulate curiosity.
The child is full of curiosity about the unknown world. Parents should seize this period to stimulate the child's curiosity and lead him to explore the unknown world.
In the face of a variety of questions, parents can not simply answer, but guide him to see more, think more, explore further, enjoy the results of exploration, and form a virtuous circle. In this respect, Newton Watt's discoveries are all the result of curiosity.
- two。 Cultivate the child's ability to concentrate on doing things.
Concentrate on doing things, which is a very good learning quality.
Parents should create a good environment for their children in their children's work games, by letting their children concentrate on puzzles, building blocks, and playing Rubik's cubes. To train children's ability to focus on things. During this period, parents try not to disturb their children, such as drinking water for a while and eating fruit for a while, which is disadvantageous to the training of attention.
In addition, parents can also set an example for their children by concentrating on their own work.
3. Cultivate children's habit of observing and thinking.
"View" is to see, "observation" if you want to, children who learn to observe will also use their brains. In history, how many people have made important discoveries as a result of observation.
Therefore, in the usual parent-child activities, parents should deliberately guide their children to learn to observe things. For example, when reading, parents can let their children pay attention to details and "look at pictures and talk"; let their children observe the expressions or movements of animals in picture books; observe the changes of nature when they go out; plant plants that they like and observe and record the process of plant growth. Let the child experience the fun of observation.
In short, parents should be observant so as to influence their children.
- 4. Cultivate children's ability to ask questions and speak.
I believe everyone knows that the ability of language expression is of great significance to one's study, work and life. And a person's language expression ability is moldable.
However, some children do not like to express because they are introverted, while others do not dare to express themselves because of stuttering or inarticulation. Parents can make corresponding countermeasures according to different situations.
For introverted children, parents should communicate with their children as much as possible, slow down and have equal dialogue, and encourage them to express their views. Children who do not speak clearly when they are young should strengthen training to correct stuttering and wrong pronunciation, and at the same time, encourage children to speak in family or even in public, praise their progress and enhance their self-confidence and desire for expression.
In short, study habits can be developed from young children. As the saying goes, "habits become natural", and a person's natural habits cannot be compared with his self-discipline when he grows up.
If you are a parent, cultivate your children's study habits from childhood, good habits to achieve a better life!
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When children are young children, I do not agree that they should be completely led by their grandparents, and it is better to lead them by rotation.
If grandparents are older, it is best not to let them take them. the excessive doting of their grandparents makes the children isolated, strong inside and weak outside, and introverted.
If they are intellectual grandparents, they can teach some simple Sinology knowledge, cultivate children's benevolence and filial piety, and tell some ancient stories such as "Kong Rong" let pear, "24 filial piety", "Sima Guang smashing the tank", "Cao Zhi called the elephant" and so on.
When children are older, they will teach some more "three-character Sutra", "hundred surnames", "Book of songs" and "Tang Poetry three hundred" to add some cultural knowledge. You can't teach more slowly at once. Children's nature is to play, so don't take up too much of his time. Buy some toys to develop his intelligence and let him play by himself. Adults should not interfere too much.
When children are older, parents should take them out to play, such as red revolutionary scenic spots, children's entertainment venues, some patriotic knowledge, initial contact with material education and interpersonal exchanges.
I don't agree with those who enroll too much in this training class and those in that excellent class, you can enroll in some fitness and intellectual training courses, such as taekwondo or dance classes.
It makes sense to take the children to and from school in the first, second and third grades. It doesn't make sense after this grade. This is not love for the child, but a kind of excessive indulgence, the child's psychological growth and physical growth will be dependent, not conducive to the healthy growth of the child.
Early childhood education is the most critical step in the process of children's growth and education. Parents should attach great importance to it and take it seriously.
According to the growth psychology of early childhood, every child has a sensitive period in early childhood.
Sensitive period refers to the sensitive period of children's development in intelligence, movement, work, rhythm, walking, sense of order and so on. Children in the sensitive period will be dominated by "sensitivity" and absorb and learn from the surrounding environment in their own unique way.
Parents who attach importance to early childhood education should seize this important period decisively so that they can better promote their children's learning and growth.
Modern parents think that they have paid a lot of painstaking efforts and energy for the growth of their children, and even sacrificed their own happiness.
But parents have to admit that even so, there are still many insurmountable problems in children's education. The current way of thinking and wisdom can not solve it, so it is necessary to start from a new aspect.
Children are alive and thoughtful, and adults should learn to understand children's ideas. Children should not be used as tools to obey their own orders. Even if the child is still young, adults are not allowed to command the child at will, so that the child must obey his own orders. Adults can only play an auxiliary role in the development of children, and children are their own masters.
Adults must take the initiative to go into the hearts of children to really help them. This is not only the greatest wish and expectation of all mothers, but also the wish of educators. Children are weak in front of their parents, and if children want to develop according to their own heart, parents should learn to control themselves, respect their children's inner thoughts, and regard understanding their children as their own responsibility, which is also the starting point of education.
Adults try their best to understand the psychological needs of children, so that what adults provide to children can be in line with their inner needs. Only when the psychology of children is satisfied can they live in harmony with adults. Only in this way can we avoid the disadvantages of the old education, really help children, and bring real progress to mankind.
This requires us to have a suitable environment when carrying out the practice of educational methods. Living in this environment, children's nature can be brought into full play, and their abilities can be wiped out.
The purpose of education is to protect the environment and at the same time make the journey of children's growth smoother.
The most important thing is to create a suitable environment and place objects familiar to children in the environment. Snow-white walls, suitable tables and chairs, as well as sunshine, rain and grass under the blue sky, these are children's favorites.
As parents, we must ensure that our hearts are quiet, this quiet should be a calm personality; quiet is a kind of inner waves without magnificent fluctuations, it can also be said to be a very flat land, this kind of quiet is a kind of driving force in the depths of parents' hearts.
In a quiet state of mind, it contains humble attitude and rational thinking, which is the premise of being able to observe children objectively, and parents need to cultivate this ability.
In addition, it is necessary to provide the child with some teaching aids that can arouse his curiosity, so that the child can give full play to his ability in the process of learning.
To sum up, a child's learning and growth must have these three points: a suitable living environment, parents with peace of mind, and teaching aids that can arouse the child's interest.