How terrible is living alone in private yoga teaching in Daqing?
How terrible is living alone?
I lived alone for three years because of my divorce 25 years ago, and it was a terrible feeling. Fortunately, with a new partner, my life gradually got back on track. I would like to tell you about my experience. Please correct what is wrong.
Dreadfully lonely.
After a bad quarrel, she packed up her things and took a taxi, leaving alone in the huge room. The world quieted down, and my ears began to ring and "hum" incessantly. It was dark. I took out a cigarette, lit the lighter with trembling hands, took a deep breath, held it back, and spit out a wisp of smoke for a long time. My mind was blank. I didn't know what to think. I lay like this all day and night, and I didn't feel hungry. Confused, as if surrounded by acquaintances, are constantly opening their mouths to persuade me, what is even more frightening is that my ex-wife stretched out her hands and stuck my neck. I was out of breath and let out a loud cry. I sat up out of bed and gasped for breath.
The house became a hotel and a liquor store.
After my classmates, colleagues, and Fa Xiao knew that I was alone at home, they seemed to have discovered the "New World". They came in turn, consciously carrying wine and food, unconsciously, empty-handed, and I had to prepare food and wine. Sometimes all of a sudden, I have to arrange for them to watch TV first, ride their motorcycles and run to the vegetable market, and buy ready-made food and drinks. I stayed at night when I drank too much and slept in my bed directly. Once I woke up drunk in the morning, only to find that six people who had drunk last night had not left, lying at random. There were more and more wine bottles piled up in the bathroom. at that time, each beer bottle was 50 cents, which could be sold for dozens of yuan at a time. Some people who quarreled with their wives and ran away from home angrily stayed with me directly at night. After a long time, everyone knew that I was a "stronghold". Sometimes my wives came here in the middle of the night, and the couple got into a fight at that time. I had to persuade them in the middle. The neighbors came to me one after another to talk to me about things. I could only keep handing out cigarettes and smiling faces. I was sure to change.
Can't cook.
In the past, all the meals were cooked by my ex-wife, but now let me do it myself. I will only go to the street to buy some noodles, come back to scramble eggs, and add some noodles under fresh water to eat. Finally, when I see hanging noodles, I feel sick to my stomach. Sometimes if you want to change your taste, you go to the street to eat rice and stir-fried vegetables, but you can't go there often. It costs too much money. My friends sometimes ask me to eat at their house. I have a low face. I always buy some gifts every time I go there. In the end, I blame the money, so I slowly begin to refuse to go to their house for dinner.
No one is distressed
What I remember most clearly is that once I had a cold with a fever of nearly 40 degrees, and I was weak and weak. I finally went to the hospital and told the doctor that I had a fever of 40 degrees, but they still didn't believe it. They asked me how high the thermometer was, and I said it was 40 degrees before they believed it. I stayed in the hospital for a few days, injected and injected with medicine, and no one poured me out even if I wanted to drink water on the hospital bed. finally, the family on the bed next door poured me a glass of water. In the past, my ex-wife reminded me of the change of season, it was time to add clothes, but now no one cares. The Winter Solstice, I am still wearing a thin jacket. Hey, it's all tears!
In short, living alone is not easy, people are social animals, a person's life will not adapt to this society, can find a partner or find it, at least will not feel so terrible.
Dear friends, living alone is not terrible, because in my prime, I have lived alone for nearly 20 years.
I like to live alone, a person's life without others to disturb, is also a happy way of life.
Make your own decisions, you don't have to worry too much, you don't have to think about anything, you don't have to worry about the attitude of others.
Eat and dress freely, spend money freely, and live your life goals at will. In general, you can live at will in your heart.
Social activities are casual, travel and sightseeing are also optional, and you are in charge of your own affairs. Don't care about the length of time.
Everything can be done as it happens, and wherever you go, it is your temporary residence.
With the trend of society, do what you like to do, you are "God". I don't care about myself in the eyes of others.
Now, I am also satisfied. I have the care of the party and government every month to give me a monthly pension.
The children are very filial and have a telephone number ☎️ that they care about at any time. I am also in good health and enjoy it every day.
Every day life is very satisfied, because I am constantly enriching myself, being self-media, learning new knowledge, strengthening my mind, and writing something I want to write about.
Friends, no matter what age you are now, I also urge you to make a plan for your life, learn more new knowledge, and walk in the forefront of science and technology, life will be very meaningful.
One of my best friends is that living alone belongs to the state of no marriage, no children, and really living alone. She is 51 years old and has lived alone for twenty years. She had a short marriage and divorced after a year. The reason for the divorce was personality incompatibility. We also talked about a few later, but all of them were not successful.
In a flash, my best friend is over 50 years old, and we friends all care about her and ask her if she still wants to get married in the future. we are mainly worried that she will be very lonely without children to take care of her in the future.
But my best friend told us that she would not look for it again. At her age, if she found another one, she would either be a babysitter or get along with a large number of children, and it would be impossible to blend in with a large family. It would be better to enjoy life by yourself. She also said that when she retired, she would live with her parents, and now her parents are in good health. She said that she would spend a good life with her parents and show filial piety to them.
Now she has changed a big house for her parents, she has done all the decorating things herself, bought environmentally friendly furniture, and spent a lot of effort on decorating and buying furniture, which is very refreshing and beautiful. she said that she will retire in a few years, and then feel at ease to accompany her parents and take care of each other.
Listen to her, her parents also tried to persuade her to find another one, and now she is very happy to live alone, changing patterns of research food every day, how to eat healthily. There is like to buy beautiful clothes, make themselves look beautiful, the state is very good. Slowly, her parents accepted her life and hoped to live with them when she retired.
In fact, what kind of life everyone chooses is their own choice, as long as they feel comfortable, don't you think?
I live alone, and 1/3 of my neighbors live alone, and most of them are retirees. One of them had cancer, but his recovery was better because of an arm injury. My son and I used to change the sheets for him once a month. He has five children, all of whom are not around, and an older brother does not come to visit him because of a recent cerebral infarction. Because he is unable to move, he spends most of his time at home, driving to McDonald's for breakfast every morning and watching TV and reading at home the rest of the time. I asked him if he was lonely. He said he was used to it and felt good.
I live alone, too, but I am busy every day. Life begins at five o'clock in the morning and ends at nine o'clock in the evening. I have a full schedule every day. Today Saturday, for example, I still get up at five o'clock for a massage, jump on a trampoline and jog outdoors, come back to sweat and take a hot bath, blow-dry my hair, put on a delicious moisturizer, and make myself full-bodied beef noodles. Reply to netizens' private messages and messages after breakfast and think about today's topic. Then I began to wash clothes and clean the bathroom. No sooner had I finished my work than my friend called in. While making a phone call, I went to the garden to pick flowers, buried the rose that cleaned the belly of the sea bass yesterday and fed me, trimmed the withered buds and dried my clothes, when the doorbell rang and my birthday cake arrived!
Flower vase, friend's phone hung up, a look at the text message, Lao Ai's message. Ignoring his text messages for three hours, he asked me what I was doing. I said the phone number of a friend, talking about her son's choice of school. The old Ai vinegar jar knocked over again and said that he would wait for me to reply all day. Isn't that an exaggeration? Has it been that long? He's in no hurry to talk to me. I said it's a nice day, so you'd better go and play tennis. Send Lao Ai away, start preparing afternoon refreshments, cut fruit on a plate, heat a cup of steaming coconut milk and oatmeal milk, and listen to music to relax. It's tiring to help friends answer questions and chat.
As soon as I saw the clock, it was three o'clock and it was time to read. Put a blanket on the yard and read for a while. Do you have to write a micro headline later? I have a lot of material in my heart, which is provided by netizens, so I have to hand in my homework one by one.
After reading the book, I washed the shower curtain, hung a clean shower curtain, and began to book tickets for the alpaca trip online. As a result, the tickets for tomorrow were sold out, so I could only book a seat for next weekend, so I sent text messages to my friends about going to Milu Deer Park for a picnic and visiting a museum tomorrow.
After a look at the time, it's time to prepare dinner. Tonight's dinner is steamed salmon and spring rolls. After dinner, I cleaned up the kitchen and played the piano for 20 minutes. I should get my clothes ready for tomorrow, take a bath and go to bed.
You say, where do I get the time to be lonely? There's not enough time for me to spend. The life of living alone is exhilarating. If you want to be quiet, you can read and play the piano and fiddle with the flowers and plants. You want to chat with friends and drink tea. You can be static and mobile, switch freely, and be the protagonist of your own life. The yard is full of flowers, the house is full of flowers and green plants, cooking delicious food and listening to music. Whenever my friends have troubles, they come to my safe haven to treat their injuries and lift their spirits, because I am in a stable and cheerful mood. I can give them warmth and positive energy. And because I have a lot of time to exercise, my health is getting better and better.
Tomorrow, when I go to the castle and the museum Meitu, this castle will be the location base for the Batman movie "Batman: The Dark Knight Rises". Friends who like British style will remember to follow me.
Get up early on the 144th day, get up at 5: 00, massage, stretch, jump trampoline, jogging outdoors.
How terrible is living alone? To tell my personal experience: my son works hard in the city and owes more than 1 million mortgage. I had a little grandson last spring, my wife took my grandson, and I was farming at home by myself. In addition to doing farm work, we have to cook and wash clothes by cooking three meals a day. It doesn't matter. Life is always simple and easy to deal with. A man in his 70s suffered from "three high". Once he fainted in the wild, he didn't know how he fell down. He woke up to find himself sleeping in the grass and thought it was a dream. When I looked closely, I knew I had fainted. I looked up and looked up, and I got up. I stretched my legs and feet, but I didn't have any disability. Continue to finish the farm work, go home for dinner, and lie in bed after taking a bath.
The more I think about it in bed, the more scared I get. My mother died of hemiplegia after a stroke for more than 10 years. My grandfather (mother) all died of a stroke. I thought that I would certainly inherit their inheritance. If a stroke fell to the ground and died in the wild, people would still see it. If you die at home, I'm afraid the bones stink. So I called and told my brother that they not only called me every day, but also taught my son to call me every day. I didn't latch the door those nights so that my neighbors could come in at any time.
At that time, I could get several phone calls every day, and then I asked them to put them in an order, and only one person called every day. Over a long period of time, I only had a few words to answer my phone every day, and I didn't know that I would die that day, so I taught them that they didn't have to call every day.
When I think about it later, people are always going to die, and there's nothing to be afraid of. You're not afraid to die, and you're afraid the bones will stink? If that phenomenon really occurs, it may be terrible and chilling in the eyes of outsiders, but there is nothing to be afraid of living alone. Duke Huan of Qi, a generation of Ming monarch, had Jiuhe princes, Kuang Fuzhou room. After death, the bones give birth to maggots. I am a farmer who died and gave birth to maggots. What is the way?
Castle Peak buried bones everywhere, where are the vicissitudes of life? Now when you die and burn, you will only have a handful of ashes!